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No tree is trying to sacrifice for another tree; hence they are green. If they start sacrificing, no tree will be green and no tree will ever flower. Look at the stars. They are very selfish&#8211;they shine for themselves; they don\u2019t sacrifice. Otherwise, the whole existence would become ugly and dark. Selfishness is natural. And the self that I am teaching is what Tao is&#8211;your nature. Listen to it, follow it. Your nature is saying to you, &#8220;Be happy.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If this Tzu Kung had asked Lao Tzu, he would have said, \u201cGreat congratulations. You are tired of study? Very good. So drop all thinking, now meditate. You want rest? It is possible right now.&#8221; Lao Tzu would not say, &#8220;You shall.&#8221; Future is meaningless, it is a trick&#8211;a trick to console you, that though you don&#8217;t have right now, you shall. You can hope, and through hope you can poison your whole being.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The priest and the politician want you to become martyrs, and martyrs are not good people because they are very angry people. They have missed their life, they are bound to be angry&#8211;it is natural. You have forced them to destroy their life, you have persuaded them, you have bribed them to destroy their life&#8211;how can they be happy? How can they ever be able to forgive you? Impossible. Live for yourself and you will live for everybody else, but it is not a sacrifice. Live for yourself. Be really authentically selfish&#8211;that is the way of nature. You take care of your happiness, your rest, your life and you will be simply surprised that when you are happy you help others to be happy because you understand by and by that if others are happy you will be more happy. Happiness can exist only in an ocean of happiness. It cannot exist alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Remember the logic,the deep logic of selfishness.Happiness cannot exist like an island, no. If everybody were unhappy around you, then it would be very difficult for you to be happy&#8211;almost impossible, because this ocean of unhappiness all around would go on crashing on your shores. The misery all around you would affect you; it would penetrate your being. So a happy person by and by comes to understand the basic, the fundamental law, that \u201cIf I want to be happy, it is good to make people happy around me!\u201dBut he is not serving others, remember. He is not sacrificing. He is simply selfish. He wants to smile, he helps you to smile too, because a single smile cannot exist; it will look very absurd. Just think: you are sitting in a room full of people, only one person smiles and all the rest are serious. He will look a little embarrassed, he will start feeling guilty: Why did he smile when nobody else is smiling? Something has gone wrong. He should be more careful next time; he will think twice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No, when you all laugh then it is very simple to laugh; the whole creates the possibility of laughter. We depend on the whole, we are part of the whole.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">By being happy you create a possibility for others to be happy. And this is real service&#8211;this is not sacrifice at all; you are not becoming a martyr. The mother is happy, that&#8217;s why she loves the child. She is so happy that she wants to share her happiness with the child. She will never have any grudge. In fact, she will feel grateful to the child that because of the child she had many beautiful moments. She will always feel grateful to the child. \u201cBecause you came to me, because you chose me to be your mother, you chose my womb, you have made me so happy, you have given me such beautiful moments which would not have been possible without you. I am grateful.\u201dAnd the child will feel grateful to such a mother who is grateful to him, and he will never be against the mother&#8211;it will be very difficult. Ordinarily, I never come across a person who is not against the mother or against the father. It is very rare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gurdjieff used to say to his disciples, &#8220;Unless you have forgien your fathers and mothers, you cannot grow.&#8221; You will say, \u201cWhat nonsense! What is he saying? Unless you forgive&#8230;&#8221; He had it written on his door: &#8220;Unless you forgive your fathers and mothers, don&#8217;t enter here.&#8221; But nobody has been able to forgive their father and mother because the father and mother have sacrificed too much.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The father and mother have been so miserable because of the children. And they go on saying how much they have suffered. No mother says,\u201cHow much I have enjoyed your being my child.\u201dNo father says,\u201cBy coming to our house you have brought light to us,love to us.\u201dThen the children would be able not only to forgive,they would be able to love, they would be able to be grateful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Once Tao is understood, the whole business of psychoanalysis will disappear, because the whole business of psychoanalysis depends on the fact that you cannot forgive your mother and your father. Lying on the couch of a psychoanalyst, what do you do?You just rage against your mother and your father. What do you do in primal therapy? Janov will be meaningless if Tao is understood. What do you do when you kick and scream in primal therapy? Whom are you kicking? Your mother and father. Whom ate you screaming at? Your mother and your father.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you listen to a patient on the psychiatrist\u2019s couch, all that he talks about is ninety percent concerned with his mother. &#8220;Mother&#8221; seems to be the problem. It is, but the reason is that the politician and the priest have contaminated the mind of humanity.They always say,\u201d You shall.Look forward.You will be happy in the future.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Only the present moment is all that you have. 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